The chief rituals
of the Vivah (marriage):
1. Vagdan: This is the word given by both parents.
This is as good as Sakharpuda.
2. Srimantpuja: Welcoming the groom and offering
him dress and ornaments.
3. Tailharidraropanvidhi: Bride and groom to
be given a bath with oil and Haladi.
4. Vivahapurvadinkritya: (Mandappratishta, Devaksthapana)
- Devkarem
5. Varache Vadhugrahi Gaman: on the wedding day
arrival of Groom at the Bride's house.
6. Madhupark Puja: At the time of Kanyadaan,
brides parents should offer curd/milk with honey/jaggery.
7. Gaurihar Puja: Puja of Shiva Shankar &
Parvati.
8. Antapatdharan: Curtain of loin cloth is held
by priests between the bride and the groom facing each other holding
garlands in their hands.
9. Mangalastake: These are the blessings from
Gods and all the manifestations of nature saying Kuryat Sada Mangalm.
It is customary that the bride wear the auspicious silver toe
rings called vede that are put on her feet by her brother.
10. Paraspar Nirikshan Mantra: after chanting
this mantra bride and groom should garland each other.
11. Kanyadanprayog: Swarnabhisek i.e. after putting
a little gold coin in water and sprinkling it on the bride and
groom, Sutraveshtan is winding of thread soaked in milk around
the neck to the waist of the bride and the groom five times, by
the priest signifying the marriage bond with love and fidelity,
Kankanbandhan is tying of the piece of Haldi with Kumkum, Mangalsutrabandhan
is tying of Mangalsutra of black beads with golden bead round
the neck of the bride, vastragranthibandhan is the tying of knots
to the ends of the Upavastra of the bride and the groom.
12. Panigrihan: This is standing of the groom
in front of the bride facing the west and holding the right hand
of the bride in his right hand and chanting the mantra with a
promise of giving her all the prosperity and requesting her to
remain with me forever in my oldage.
13. Vivah-Home: Lajahome is the home to be performed
for the fruitfulness of marriage. The fire is sacred fire. After
the seventh round and the Saptapadi is a procedure wherein the
groom is holding bride's toe and pulling her one after another
on the seven piles of rice taking a vow of fulfillment of marriage.
14. Vadhugruhapravesh or Gharbharoiuni: is the
rituals performed after returning home with the bride. When the
bride enters her husband's house as a married woman her mother-in-law
places a bowl of rice at the entrance of the house called Humbro.The
bride is then supposed to kick the rice with her right foot in
the house.
15. Naming Ceremony: This is a ceremony when
the groom names his wife with his ring on the plate spread with
sugar.
16. Devakothapan & Mandapodwasan: This is
the last religious ritual of visarjan (removal) of the established
deity along with the mandap.
17. Panchpartavan: This is a social custom of
inviting the groom and his family members to the house of brides'
parents for lunch or dinner and offering them some gifts or the
other.
Note: some of the rituals and customs vary from
place to place as per geographical divisions
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